- The Singles In America Match report shows that the use of AI in meetings jumped 333% in just one year.
- Nearly half of the Z generation Z singles now use AI to help with profiles, messages or match filtering.
- AI can help Polish meetings, but its long -term usefulness is questionable.
Finding an online date or with an application has gone from an embarrassing secret to universal experience in a few years. But, although he probably culminated a few years ago, it is always an extremely popular way to meet someone.
In 2025, a new winger in the form of artificial intelligence exploded in popularity. Match, the company behind Tinder, Hinge and more than a dozen other digital dating services, found a huge 333% increase in the use of AI among singles in just one year. The test was reported as part of the 14th annual study in simple America, the largest of its kind, carried out with the Kinsey Institute. Thus, about one in four in four of the American singles now enlist the AI to shape their profiles, offer opening lines or check the potential matches.
The Single Survey in America comes from 75,000 people. The use of AI does not propagate uniformly among singles, with almost half of the singles of the Z generation saying that they have used AI in certain aspects of their life of meetings. But, 44% of all singles said they would like AI to help them filter potential partners, and 40% want help to make the perfect dating profile. This means that if you have been on a recently dating application, there is a good chance that you will not flirt with a person; You flirt with a suggestion of an AI of the way they should flirt.
As strange as it may seem at first, it makes sense when you consider how so many people I know have exhausted on them after having managed confused label rules and more ghosts than haunted house. Why not let a Chatbot help you sit your opening line or rewrite your biography?
“AI does not replace intimacy, this gives a simple advantage,” said the director of sex sciences and relations with sex, Dr Amanda Gesselman, in a statement. “For a generation overwhelmed by options, the tools that bring clarity and efficiency are more than welcome.”
Applications like Tinder, Hinge and Bumble have already started to deploy AI tools that suggest better photos, screen messages for tone or recommend BIOS that work well. Grindr tests a winger AI for writing ice breakers and dates ideas.
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I used dating applications a lot in my simple days. Creating a fun and friendly hello, generally with a joke or a little play on words, was a key element, because if they did not like my sense of humor, it would probably be a bad date. Of course, it could be frustrating if it did not happen, but the idea of letting an AI choose my photos, writing my organic, of my matches and planning a date would not have been something that I would have been interested in doing.
It was quite serious when my friends stood insisted to slide and message on my behalf. In addition, when you finally meet in person after using AI for all the initial interaction, with whom are you going exactly an appointment?
I get the appeal of using AI to smooth out clumsiness. But AI should be a tool to take control of tedious and boring pieces of life. Use it for the fun parts of the flirt and the meeting of someone seems to be the opposite of how we have to get involved with AI. I do not try to be an old man luddite or grumpy about AI with meetings.
If you are anxious or simply very annoying when you start a conversation, a prompt or a suggestion of AI can be a life buoy. Or if English is not your mother tongue, these tools can help you express yourself more clearly. But going beyond small assists could cross a line and move away from real relationships.
The study of the match also found an astonishing number of singles of generation Z, towards a third, has already had a romantic interaction with AI because they jumped from AI, helping to find a date at the AI being the date. This may seem hyperbolic, but enough people establishing relations with AI will reshape what they expect from human relations in an unpredictable manner.
