Gabrielle Union mourns the loss of her father, Sylvester “Cully” Union Jr.
The actress’ father died Friday morning (April 3) at the age of 81 after a difficult battle with dementia. A day later, she took to Instagram to write a lengthy tribute, speaking about the disease’s devastating progression.
“No matter how much you think you know about dementia, nothing prepares you for the slow, painful passing of your loved one,” she wrote, describing the heartbreaking reality of watching them disappear. “People you know are getting smaller and smaller… It’s brutal and that’s what he experienced, but that wasn’t who he was.”
But beyond the pain, Union made sure to celebrate the man he was. The 53-year-old remembers his father as someone who “never met strangers, just friends he hadn’t met yet,” a die-hard Nebraska fan who instilled the values of teamwork, resilience and compassion. She also reflected on his growth over the years, noting that he “recognized his imperfections, apologized and made amends.”
Union also thanked those who cared for him in his final years, including medical staff and his sisters, calling them “heroes.”
The tribute was accompanied by a touching video montage, featuring clips of Sylvester singing, partying and spending time with family.
Sylvester Union Jr. had been battling dementia for years and was placed in memory care in 2023, something Union previously shared with his fans.
“It’s mind-boggling to feel relief that the pain has ended,” the tribute continues, “but deep sorrow at the finality of his times. I know I’m not the first nor the last daddy’s girl to go through this, and I send love and healing to anyone suffering the loss of a parent. I know his love is everlasting and will find me in all matters.”
