An insider just dropped a bombshell about Jennifer Lopez, and it seems she hasn’t yet accepted that her relationship with Ben Affleck has ended.
The source spoke about this in an interview with World of heat where they reportedly said: “It’s understandable that she’s struggling to move forward, it was such a crazy whirlwind and everything came crashing down so suddenly.”
“But it’s been over a year and she’s still hanging on tight,” the source added. So much so that “she refuses to accept that this is the end, she is convinced that there is more to their love story and will not let go”.
According to our source, “one thing about Jennifer is that she is incredibly stubborn, when she is convinced of something, she will not give up.”
“It’s one of the secrets to her huge success and a great trait in that sense, but it’s not a positive thing when it comes to her love life, it keeps her stuck.”
Even her friends are starting to worry because “she’s constantly finding ways to bring Ben up in conversation. After the way he’s treated her, you’d think it would be complaining, but most of the time she just wants to reminisce about her past. Even something as random as her cat walking into the room can get her talking about him and a moment they shared.”
She’s still “caught in this pattern of magical thinking,” the source said near the end.
Plus, “she insists that they’re meant to be together, that it’s written in the stars and that she can want it.” But “friends have tried to gently tell her that she’s just making this a million times harder on herself, that what she really needs to do is summon the strength to let go, but she’s obsessed with the idea that Ben is her soulmate and can’t get over that.”
